Monday, 12 November 2018

Inner Conflict - an initiation of success?

What exactly is inner Conflict and what's the reason for its very existence?

Every once in a while we all tend to have a conflict about one thing or another. Sometimes the duration of the conflict is small and other times, well , it might be there for quite a long time. 
The shorter conflict occurs when we are not sure about what decision we might pick from the available few. It is common and not the most unique one as one might say.

But the conflict that has just started inside you when you start to question your ideals or the ways in which you have been living your life this entire time. This is when the process of changing yourself starts. I am not saying that you start jumping to conclusions right away. No ,this is not what I want from you and this is not the path to which your inner conflict wants you to follow.

When this starts and the conflict is there, whether you numb it with the same old habits of quitting a task and procrastination but it still pops up out of nowhere. That means, it is trying to guide you to a way, to a new path that you are not used to follow, which no one is used to follow because not everyone is strong to thrive upon that feeling to just attempt to think about changing yourself for the greater good. The mere thinking that you need to change yourself is better than living the same loop, some people call life but in actual it isn't. Stop living life in cycles and try to bring out the best version of yourself to this world where it belongs and not somewhere in the hiding, in shadows, suppressed by the toxic habits of quitting and/or procrastinating.

The conflict occurs only when you start to realize that you have been living your life all wrong. Whereas there's a great deal which you can actually achieve than you have been thinking you can. So, my request to all of you is that when it starts, don't let it die. Don't let the obvious version of yourself define who you are. Only you, YES you, no one else can turn the tables in your life, no one's going to magically do it for you. Keep the conflict alive, thrive upon it, become a better human being.

Sorry, for the late post. Keep reading my content and will be posting frequently.
Adios!

Monday, 9 January 2017

The Beginning

Belated Happy New Year 2017,  Readers

This post is about the beginning of new year and our expectations from it. I mean why not! Right? We are humans and we expect a lot from every coming year, month and even every day.


The first thing I want you readers(If there are any #lol) to do is post Your New Year Resolutions in the comment section below..
These comments are going to remind your resolutions just in case during the haste of the coming year you forget them...

We all should have goals , once we achieve them we should aim for higher ones.
Achieving a thing by your own dedication makes us ecstatic. Not by killing time , not by counting each and every day and waiting for a thing to happen magically. Trust me It won't..
You need to get out there and work for it if you want to truly enjoy its attainment. 
Enjoy the process , enjoy each and every day and get lost within its journey. It is not the achievement of the thing you have been working on that is going to make you happy, but the time you have spent in attaining it. 

These are the times that we are going to tell our friends about in our future and laugh our stomachs out, though it may not feel the same when you are pursuing them. There will be tough times , circumstances that would force you into leaving your goal. But all the hard workers I want to tell you , Just Hang in There! No matter what happens. Just be an Iconoclast for the time being. Don't worry about the society , do not get disturbed by your family matters. I know there is a breaking point of every person. Its O.K. to be upset, to be angry to get depressed for a while. Cry your heart out if you need to do so. But do not let your focus to break due to any external factor. In a nutshell, you have to work on Newton's first law of motion for the time being.. Means get disturbed for a while but do not lose your track!

Plus I have been thinking lately that I should post weekly.. 
In case I forget , drop a mail at my gmail #Stay_Happy

Adios!


Monday, 14 November 2016

Satisfaction

Let me ask you a question..
According to you, what exactly is satisfaction?

1. Being Rich
2. Being famous on instagram, facebook, or maybe snapchat. 
3. Or the pretty obvious one having an iPhone.

Whats next?
You would be hogging for more .. U would be in competition with your colleagues..
There is no stopping point in these... U would never be truly satisfied ..

Today i have completed one month of my coaching classes. I have to travel daily for 1 and half hour daily in the morning at 8 o'clock. I attend a 4 hour class and get back home. I barely rest for 45 minutes and then i have to go and give tuition. Though I have only one student but still I go daily to teach him. It is more of a duty rather than a habit, once you start. After teaching him I go to gym, hit it hard, then I come back home at 7 p.m. I then talk to my sister, crack some weird jokes and do my homework. Then I go to sleep.

That is how I know OR I believe my day is not wasted. Today I received the tuition fee of my only student. Though it wasn't much yet I was more satisfied than holding a iPhone. Yes, you heard it right. And no, I m not out of mind. The difference lies in hard work, as the iPhone would be of my Dad's money. And today is the day I actually considered the thought that, what the people gonna give us, to whom we text on a daily basis.

So, if you still don't know what you are doing in your life. Go out, try something new, be crazy. Don't listen to other people's naive guesses. Be your own mentor. I hope you got the point. 

Adios!

Sunday, 13 November 2016

Let's Begin

Hiatus
What exactly is Hiatus?
 Hiatus means a short break from your career. In this blog, to those who will be reading this, I would be describing about my short hiatus of one year. Spoiler- This blog is not necessarily interesting. I would be telling all about the things I learned, things that changed me and things that made me stronger and gave me a more articulate view of our world.